Looking good is high on a woman’s priority list, we all strive to look our best whether single or in a relationship. Some men are fascinated, awe struck and even in love with the natural look. Does your man love your natural hair?

After we BC (big chop), or transition to natural hair we can feel liberated, free and excited; but with that can also come feelings of insecurity and discomfort, especially when it comes to the opinions of our significant others. We can’t pretend for the sake of being “PC” that there aren’t men who won’t be into your natural hair. There is a chunk of the population who prefer (for various, complicated and lengthy reasons – please feel free to discuss in the comments) for a black woman’s hair to be straight. Some continue to hold tight to the notion that ‘good hair’ is flat, long and straight.

It’s hard enough trying to find “Mr. or Mrs. Right”, trying to convince someone to accept the hair on your head just isn’t a battle worth fighting. You want someone who appreciates all of you, inside and out - in your heart and via your follicles - and thankfully, many men do.

It their a lack of appreciation for natural hair amongst men, more specifically black me? Let’s discuss…

Love Your Hair,

Jane